I Hate My Parents. What Should I Do?
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Ever since I was 12 I’ve hated my dad. At this age my dad was still physical with me (hitting, kicking, punching and throwing things at me) and realized that he isn’t allowed to put his hands on me. So I started defending myself by telling him I would call the police. He and my Mum would just laugh in my face and would say that the cops would take their side before a 12 year olds. It’s also made him more angry by saying that and would hurt me even more. I’ve had bruises, welts, you name it.
Im now 17 and have dropped out of school (about 2 years ago) for mental health reasons. I so badly want to go back to school but every time I mention going back to school my Mum will say “why go back to school. You’ve never completed anything in your life” or “you’ve got no hope in life. Just quit while you’re ahead”. The things that she says just degrade me so bad and I have my friends on my back about going back to school and I get so stressed out! How can I be motivated to do anything when my Mum doesn’t support me?!
My dad is a control freak. What he says goes, even though I do my own thing anyway. And he says the most hurtful, selfish and immature things to get into my head. Like “you’re just a mental mole. You need to go back into hospital”. And he’s constantly telling me he hates my guts (not that I care because I hate his!). He tells me to go and shove my fingers down my throat (because I am bulimic) and says he can’t wait for my disease to kill me. Mum says she is ashamed to say I’m her daughter…. I mean, what did I do to deserve this??! I have tried killing myself 4 times now. I feel like I’m trapped! Every since I was little, I used to look at mums hugging their kids and wished it was me. I used to pretend I was in another world to escape and still do today because reality is just to hard to face.
People tell me it’s going to get easier I just have to wait, but in the meantime, I stuck in a house of hatred and I am being driven mental! I’ve been in therapy since I was 13 and they say my parents only want the best for me because they love me which is rubbish. I KNOW they hate me!
Some nights I just cry for hours, until I fall asleep. I have to smoke about 5-6 joints a day to make it through another day. But I don’t know why I am still fighting. I have no education, hardly any friends and no family that I could stay with because they hate me because my mum will talk crap into their heads. Why should I bother? I must be a bad person in some way. If someone could tell me, then maybe I could fix myself.
They give me no money. I have a part-time job, but the money isn’t enough for food, toiletries etc. I’m reduced to having sec with this older guy for money..
Please give me advise… As a minor, what can I do to get me out of this house? How do I stay sane? Thanks
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tell your guidance councilor
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Get out of your parents house, apply for a council house, ask help from Shelter as homeless.
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