Pregnant and Feeling Alone?

Question by Worried????: Pregnant and feeling alone?
I’m about 9 weeks pregnant and the baby father is not really there for me. He tells me that I should of kept better track of my days and that I messed up and is my fault. He has mention that I could have an abortion, I had one before and it was with him. I really don’t want to have another. I think I can do it alone. I have family which I know that could help me. It means that I have leave the state to another state. When I told him that he told me that I was running away from my problems and that I was going to depend on other people. I’m no going to depend on my family but that’s where my support is. He tells me that I don’t do anything right and that he doesn’t think that I can be a person he can marry cause I will bring him down and he needs someone that will help him move up. I have a feeling that I’m going to be alone though out this and really don’t know what to do. If I move it will not be until after the baby is born. Just so that I can have the insurance from my job and be ready to work full time and save money.
Has anyone felt really alone.

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Answer by ?Our baby boy due 9th December?
Well PLEASE get this horrible man out of your life. He sounds awful. Honey, you WILL be fine and I’m so glad that you are making the right decision for yourself.

Answer by ?Danie?
My husband left me the day I found out I was pregnant with our third child. He was a very abusive person in every way imaginable and even though I couldnt see it then,it was the best thing he’d ever done for me-leaving that is. If you have that abortion,that would be running away from your problems.

It sounds like you know whats right for you at this point,you just want validation. He doesnt sound like a very caring man and in my opinion you shouldnt walk but run away from this kind of treatment. No one deserves the kind of remarks you say hes given to you.
Best of luck and congrats

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